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Got my husband into it, so much fun!
My wife tolerates it on occasion, but it's not her thing. She's a lovely wife for doing it for me.
Do you do all the prep work so your back door is squeaky clean?
If not, that could be the reason she’s not as into it.
I do make sure things are spic and span back there. It's just not her thing. That's OK, I'm not complaining at all. Relationships include a lot of compromises to love and support your partner. She does this for me once in a while even though she doesn't love it. I do things for here that aren't my fav to do, but I love doing them because they make her happy.
Fun for him only or for you as well?
Equally fun for both!