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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech to c/unpopularopinion@lemmy.world

Probably not too unpopular here.

Standing waiting for the bus in my city with decent transit and I have 2 trucks rev their engines loudly past me, another one letting just clouds of pollution, watching people driving who aren't paying attention and several people blowing cutting last second through a light. All in just 3 minutes by a small corner with light traffic.

Made me think how cars are inherently selfish. People don't want to be around others (the fear aspect), so they drive their own bubble around. In addition to that, some go out of their way to make their cars even worse to people outside of them.

No wonder we can't move away from them. They are a definition of our own culture

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[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 64 points 6 months ago

I think calling it a culture of fear and selfishness is a pretty significant disservice to the reality of how car companies bought and dismantled public transit.

It was stolen from us, we didn't reject it.

[-] synae@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 6 months ago

Lots of people are happy to reject it these days though, it's like the mythical Stockholm syndrome come to life

[-] SkepticalButOpenMinded@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

That’s definitely a big part, but it’s both. Like white flight out of cities and insisting on a detached suburban home, the other part of the story is that cars represent “social worth” for many in North America.

It’s why car people become so angrily defensive, and fight even modest changes. Cars aren’t just functional. They represent a cherished value system. Their worth as a person is tied up with their car.

That said, just like diamond rings and smoking, even this weird cultural norm was bought by industry advertising. We’re social apes, who do things to feel important and valued, even when it otherwise makes no sense.

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