42
submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech to c/unpopularopinion@lemmy.world

Probably not too unpopular here.

Standing waiting for the bus in my city with decent transit and I have 2 trucks rev their engines loudly past me, another one letting just clouds of pollution, watching people driving who aren't paying attention and several people blowing cutting last second through a light. All in just 3 minutes by a small corner with light traffic.

Made me think how cars are inherently selfish. People don't want to be around others (the fear aspect), so they drive their own bubble around. In addition to that, some go out of their way to make their cars even worse to people outside of them.

No wonder we can't move away from them. They are a definition of our own culture

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

I need my car so I can visit my elderly mother who lives 2 hours away and frequently needs me to help her with things. There is no public transit that goes there. I'm sorry if you think that's "selfish" 🙄

[-] FlordaMan@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

I don’t think they meant the individuals are always selfish, more that the whole culture (and thus the lack of public transport) exists because of selfishness and fear.

Also in countries which are not as reliant on cars most people still have access to a car, they just use it less often.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago

OP went out of their way to say people selfishly drive cars to avoid other people. Seems like they are specifically targeting individuals as the problem

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

The lack of transit is due to the culture of selfishness. Are you honestly taking this as a personal attack?

[-] GBU_28@lemm.ee 1 points 6 months ago

The lack of transit is not due to a culture. It's due to systemic lobbying and political failing to get public works built and funded.

Where public transit is available, and properly funded, Americans use it.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago

People don't want to be around others (the fear aspect), so they drive their own bubble around. In addition to that, some go out of their way to make their cars even worse to people outside of them.

That seems pretty personal to me...

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago

And yet, I was somehow able to not take it personally despite my having similar reasons for needing a car as you.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world -2 points 6 months ago

I'm happy for you 👏

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 3 points 6 months ago

If you're taking that personally then I would really look inwards, and ask yourself why you took that as a personal insult.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Sure, I'll get right on that 😉

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech -5 points 6 months ago

I mean now I'll say you're being selfish for not even trying to understand the point I'm trying to make.

[-] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Dude... Your post explicitly stated that all car owners are selfish people who only care about maintaining their personal "bubble", and according to your own words this was based entirely on two trucks that drove past you at a bus stop. Perhaps I would have a better understanding of what you meant if you actually said what you meant instead of a blanket statement condemning every car owner in existence as a selfish asshole...

I rarely drive my car. I walk to the stores near me whenever that is an option.

You are the one who posted a personal attack and then immediately started backpedaling

this post was submitted on 15 Feb 2024
42 points (66.4% liked)

Unpopular Opinion

6162 readers
414 users here now

Welcome to the Unpopular Opinion community!


How voting works:

Vote the opposite of the norm.


If you agree that the opinion is unpopular give it an arrow up. If it's something that's widely accepted, give it an arrow down.



Guidelines:

Tag your post, if possible (not required)


  • If your post is a "General" unpopular opinion, start the subject with [GENERAL].
  • If it is a Lemmy-specific unpopular opinion, start it with [LEMMY].


Rules:

1. NO POLITICS


Politics is everywhere. Let's make this about [general] and [lemmy] - specific topics, and keep politics out of it.


2. Be civil.


Disagreements happen, but that doesn’t provide the right to personally attack others. No racism/sexism/bigotry.


3. No bots, spam or self-promotion.


Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.


4. Shitposts and memes are allowed but...


Only until they prove to be a problem. They can and will be removed at moderator discretion.


5. No trolling.


This shouldn't need an explanation. If your post or comment is made just to get a rise with no real value, it will be removed. You do this too often, you will get a vacation to touch grass, away from this community for 1 or more days. Repeat offenses will result in a perma-ban.



Instance-wide rules always apply. https://legal.lemmy.world/tos/

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS