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Agreed. It would be nice if people weren't so pressured to go to work for money that they could take care of children rather than feeling like you need to abandon them for a job. I'm not saying they did this. But over 3/4 of my sick days last year was to take of my kid. And when I had COVID, I was out and the statutes to pay me were gone.
This is why it's very important to think fiscally when deciding to have a baby. Those things are damn pricy!
It's also very important to vote carefully before deciding to have a baby. In most 1st world countries, you get a few family responsibilities leave days a year, that an employer cannot deny.
Under law in those countries, you are a parent first and an employee second. That comes with privileges and responsibilities.
The USA is not one of those countries.
Trying to understand how this is good advice..
If my votes don't get the politicians I like into office don't reproduce?
If I get pregnant move to a country that has better maternity benefits?
What I meant, is that if you plan to have kids, you may want to vote for politicians that will give your children the best future, even after they are born.
This is a very nuanced issue, and I won't be able to explain my thoughts without someone whatabouting it.
And while you're right, it is absolutely insane that we blame individuals for the exploitive nature of society.
Kids are expensive because businesses realized they could charge whatever for everything and then run ad campaigns about how bad of a parent you are for not buying their product or service. Simultaneously cutting every public, infrastructural component that used to support parents.
Poor Americans. I just can't imagine having to deal with limited sick days. If I'm sick for more than six weeks in a row, I get a little less money, and then from my health insurance instead of my boss, but that's the only limit that is.
I wish! But Merica