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All these stupid "ignore them to seem attractive because interested = unsexy"
Not being a virgin anymore? Thats something good too.
Having actively broken up a past relationship, knowing barriers.
Hanging out with friends rather than you sometimes, which is really important "relationship time management"
I find it absurd that virginity or lack thereof has any bearing.
Experience is often good to have.
Not for the abusers. They'd rather shape your experience and groom you into a perfect abuse victim.