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[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago

Experience is often good to have.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

100%, people who fetishize virginity are fucking weird and people who "preserve their virginity" usually have some weird culty background that they'll need to work through.

Sex is just sex.

[-] 520@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

For sex-only relations, sure. For a full on relationship? Nah, it has no bearing. I've dated a virgin that was manipulative as fuck, another that has been the best partner one could ask for, and have had similar experiences with those that have had past sexual encounters.

Their sexual past or lack thereof frankly doesn't matter. You need to look elsewhere for substantial indicators of their character and your compatibility.

[-] Hyperreality@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Eh.

Some people take years to learn to play guitar poorly.

Some people pick it up in a month.

Natural talent and an ability to follow directions goes a long way.

[-] Damaskox@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Some people take years to learn to play guitar poorly.

I feel they're not training often enough to actually grow their skills in it.
Natural talents do help but repetition, motivation and using time on it are probably the three most important aspects in learning (new) stuff.

[-] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago

If they play poorly after years, they don't lack talent, they lack doing the right thing. If you train the wrong thing over and over thinking it's right, you may never figure out the problem

[-] TheEntity@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago

Not for the abusers. They'd rather shape your experience and groom you into a perfect abuse victim.

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