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What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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When I was 11, my teacher told the class "if you don't have time, make time" and it just stuck to me ever since.
Now it just irritates me whenever someone says they don't have time.
In the (very good) video game pillars of eternity 2, an imp comes to tell you his wizard wants you to see him. If you respond with "I'll go if I have time" the imp replies "pfth. Who has time? You have to make time". Now I think about this a lot.
I've also learned that sometimes when people say they don't have time they actually mean they don't want to, but they think a small lie is more polite. Personally if I invite you to something I'd rather you tell me you're not interested so I know not to invite you in the future. But some people are cripplingly conflict avoidant.
I've felt this way for a long time. Now I've got 2 toddlers and the hours of 6a-9p are completely consumed with children or work. I don't know how to make time anymore
Love this! So many of the "no time" people act like victims when it's their own choice! No one told you to commit yourself to all those things. And if you can't make time, it's not a priority then.