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Why the Internet Isn’t Fun Anymore
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this post was submitted on 12 Oct 2023
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In the early 00s, here in my city, it was fun to go to a certain pedestrians-only avenue to drink with friends. Or a date. If you do it now - yes, post-COVID lockdowns! - you can't hold a conversation for five fucking minutes without someone interrupting you with advertisement. As a result, people use that avenue nowadays strictly to commute.
I've ditched TV when I was 14. (I don't regret it.) But plenty people told me that open TV, and then cabled TV, became unbearable due to the sheer amount of advertisement.
Unless I recognise the number, I'm not bothering to pick the phone up any more. I'm probably not the only one doing it.
Are you noticing the pattern? Perhaps the internet suffers a bit more with it because people are a bit freer to do what they want here, but the problem is not exclusive to the internet, it's everywhere advertisers appear. The world has become less fun due to advertisers ("how do people DARE to have fun and ignore our «marketing opportunities»?").
Wait. So, like a person interrupts you? Can you explain this like I don't understand it?
The thing in my city? It's like this, but each 5~10 minutes. Each time it's a different person advertising something else. It's frequent enough that you can't hold a decent conversation, even if your only "mistake" was to sit on a bench in a public space. If you ignore the advertiser, they'll insist and use a slightly louder tone, as if you were assumed to be deaf; and if you ask them to leave you alone [even politely] they'll babble about "trying to help you so you don't miss this amazing opportunity".
Just to give you an idea: once, my then girlfriend and me decided to count it. We sit on a bench, drinking some booze, and we got twelve advertisers bugging us in a hour and half. Including: eyeglasses stores, phone providers advertising "number portability", local popular restaurants, handcrafted accessories sellers, gold buyers, so goes on.
It's basically an offline example of the same thing that happens on the internet. Everybody and their dog wants your attention, and they'll make sure to be heard against your will. The text doesn't directly acknowledge that, but note how everything there ties it to advertisers, from "S.E.O. hackers have ruined the trick of adding “Reddit” to searches to find human-generated answers" (why? For ad views!) to Tiktok "pushes us to scroll through another dozen videos of cooking demonstrations or funny animals" (why? Ad views.)
Wtf that's nuts and sounds like it breaks several laws, like harassment and disturbing the peace or sum. I'd definitely have a stern word with them.
I never looked for potential laws against that, because... well, Latin America. But I think that it would be hard to classify it as either - it's multiple independent and uncoordinated agents, and the disturbance/harassment is not due to one of them interacting with you, but all of them.
I think that the city needs to pass some law specifically against selling and advertising stuff on public places.
This is gonna sound silly but I have that with joggers. Like I just want to relax in the park and there's all these joggers stressing me out with their self improvement vibes. So I end up having to go outside the city to find some peace in nature.
To be fair I do it myself too.
Anyway that sounds really annoying for you.
One time my roommate let a solicitor in during Corona. My god I gave him such a stern word I wouldn't be surprised if he quit because of it. I was so angry because I hadn't seen my friends in ages and then this fucker can just come visit? There's no way that was legal in Germany.
Well, in my country you can call the police when the person doesn't leave you alone when told so. But given the US police and US Freedom of Speech (TM) I'm not so sure...
I guess I am lucky since that doesn't happen where I live.
Not comment OP, but I assume its similar to mine. People will approach you to give you flyers of their buisness, free samples, or otherwise smooth talk you to enter their shop/stand.
When you're sitting in a restaurant or bar chilling with friends. It is a thing that happens.
It's "a thing that happens" when it's sporadic. But when it becomes frequent, annoying or obtrusive enough, it becomes a reason to avoid the space, it makes the space less fun. Same deal with the internet.
I spent 3 days in a hotel room this week, and while I did bring my Steam Deck and dock with me for entertainment, I got there to find that the TV had no HDMI ports. I was stuck with basic cable and the only saving grace being Showtime, which wasn't at extra cost and doesn't have ads.
But when both Showtime channels had stuff I was less than indifferent to watching, the advertisements on any of the other channels were horrible. The shows felt like they were 1:1 in terms of content to ads.
Don't get me started on the radio, either. I used to love listening to the radio, but now all they play is the same set of a couple dozen songs, with 5 minutes of ads that play every 3 or so songs. Also, no rock station in my area plays anything newer than ~15 years old, tops. They're all still playing the same music that I listened to on those stations when I was a teen, and I'm a little over 30.
I feel you on the radio aspect, I cycle through all my presets on my 25 minute commute because so many of them are just ads for 5 minutes. And for some reason my rural area has 4 classic rock stations but I can't find one that plays anything modern but pop and pop-country.