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[–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 199 points 4 days ago (2 children)

exactly what it feels like when airlines list "board first" as a perk for paying twice as much

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 123 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Right?

I like boarding last. Less time I spend in that fucking tube the better.

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 62 points 4 days ago (15 children)

I like being part of the last 10-15%, but not the last couple of people. The number of times I've been forced to check my backpack because "there's no more room in the overhead compartments" only to step in the plane and find plenty of room in the overhead compartments is too damn high.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 39 points 4 days ago (4 children)

That is my number one gripe, how the hell do those overhead compartments run out of space when everyone is limited to one carry on bag, aren’t the planes designed to hold the carrry on of every passenger, it’s usually some dickheads putting their personal item bags up there or the cabin crew not bothering to tell people to shift their bags sideways or actually checking if they are completely full or not

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 40 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Yep, or I have seen staff heckling an old guy because the tip of his case wheels stuck outside of the sizing device, while some moron with a hockey bag sized duffel walks on and nobody days anything.

One flight was packed and so the host was asking everyone to turn their bag sideways in the overhead as we boarded, and while saying this over and over people still were laying them flat. I said "This must get old, it is like dealing with children." He said, "no it is worse, children listen, these adults don't."

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was on a flight earlier this year where the attendant had to explain repeatedly to the same group of passengers that they may not put their winter coats into the overhead bin and will have to keep it with them. This same flight they had to restart the safety demonstration because someone got up and went to the bathroom during the first playthrough of it

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It is weird to me that adults can't follow expectations or even clear instructions

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago

I often say at work, if I followed directions like the employees I support I'd be out of the job

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I've been on flights where people have placed their bags in flat and sidewise then just closed the bin. Attendants then get upset when you open bins to check for space (even in cases where you saw there was space before someone closed it) because of course they are the only ones that close bins and they always check for space.

I've also been on flights where people have stood up to use the bathroom or adjust their bags while taxiing and then everyone has to wait on them wine the attendants just repeat on loop that they need to sit the fuck down.

The rules of planes just seem not to matter at all to some people and the rest of us have to suffer for it.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

I do not understand the people that close the bins. There must be a hell for them against the people that stick their carry on in the first slot they see on a half-loaded plane and then waltz to the back.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don’t understand the people who close the bins after putting their bag up. It’s frustrating as heck for the rest of us, but I don’t see how they think it benefits them in any way. Is it just annoying other passengers for the LoLs, or do they think there’s some logic?

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

I mean, sometimes the bin is just full after you put your bag in and it's obvious that it's full (assuming no one put their bag flat when there's room to put it on its side). Wouldn't you want the bins closed after that as a visual cue to how much space is left when you board and get close to your seat?

I'm talking like these types of full. Do you really need a flight attendant's professional determination about it?

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

I actually want them open as a visual clue that there's no room. Far easier a truth to assess than seeing one closed and not knowing if someone was just being a dick.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Yes. Passengers are clearly untrustworthy. I almost never see the bins packed like that and usually people close when there is still room

The thing is that many “carryon” bags will not fit like that but it shouldnt matter. Even laying down there is usually room for three bags to match the number of seats.

Ive frequently see passengers close the bin when there are bags laying down the long way, wasting excess space whne there is clearly more room

[–] bountygiver@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago

It depends, sometimes better efficiency can be achieved if bags are shifted around and letting the attendants see them in a glance can help that process faster

[–] just2look@lemmy.zip 16 points 4 days ago

There is also the issue that airlines have been stuffing seats tighter and tighter. So more people without an increase in overhead compartment space.

[–] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 days ago

My number one gripe is why they charge for the stuff people don’t want (under plane) but offer what people do want for free (in the bins).

I know it’s a pain in some flights to wait for the cargo unloading but the other side of getting on a plane and doing transfers with nothing but a small handbag is so nice.

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

One carry on, one personal item. A personal item can be a backpack. I don't remember the last time I checked a bag.

[–] fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

How big is your backpack where they’d make you check it?

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Smaller than a roller bag. There just comes a time when boarding that airline staff just seem to say "fuck it, everything else goes on the hold."

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

All too often it’s an announcement like “boarding groups 7 and 8 must check their carryons”

[–] xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

What if you have stuff in your backpack that is not allowed in hold luggage (lithium batteries)?

[–] ech@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 days ago

You are supposed to take it out. Carry it with you or put it in the personal bag they assume you have.

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[–] 3abas@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago (3 children)

If I'm traveling without a carry on, yes, I wait until the whole line is clear before I board.

If I have a carry-on, I line up to board as soon as my zone is called. Too many times I boarded and found some assholes sitting all the way in the back have put their carry ons above my seats so they don't have to drag it, and I have to walk past my seat and be an asshole myself by putting my carry on above a seat that's not mine, wait until there's a break in boarding so I can make my way back to my seat, and wait for everyone to deboard before I can go back and grab my carry on.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I thought most airlines won't allow a carry-on that won't fit under your seat?

[–] arrow74@lemmy.zip 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

No that's the personal item a small bag that fits under the seat. A carry on is a slightly larger bag that goes in the overhead bin

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Oh! I carry a giant Camelbak, so it does double duty I guess.

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[–] TheRealKuni@piefed.social 9 points 4 days ago

Depends on if I’m trying to use the overhead bin. If I am, I want to be in quickly so I can use the one above me. Then I want to sit down, get my Steam Deck out, and disappear until the plane lands.

[–] yaroto98@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Plus the chairs and leg room at the gate give a much more comfortable sitting experience than in the plane.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm shocked everytime I fly that people want to board. Only advantage is not getting stuck in the middle of a 3-seater.

[–] arrow74@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 days ago

Most airlines assign seats. There are a few exceptions

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 15 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

Priority seating in such a weird way to do it as well.

So you load first class, and then the obvious next move is to go back to front.

I'm sure the first class passengers absolutely love the experience of everybody walking past them. Who wouldn't want that?

[–] bobzilla@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I always enjoy silently crop-dusting the first class passengers as I walk by

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Perhaps the flight attendant should announce each person like a royal wedding.

[–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago
  • Your name, sir?
  • Mike, from the Hawk family
  • trumpet noises ALL WELCOME ABOARD MR MIKE HAWK
[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago

the obvious next move is to go back to front.

Gotta add in some window-middle-aisle with some staggering between seats to give people room/time to stow bags

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAHbLRjF0vo

[–] naticus@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I have always thought this order of things as the weirdest/worst order possible and was thinking about this very thing last week in my flights. I do know other countries so it in a sane order, but the US would like to stubbornly so it in the least ideal way. Some airline should start marketing the option to board last since some people are not happy unless they pay extra to set themselves apart from us lowly plebs.