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whats your thought on open relationship? if both living in different states

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[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

if husband and wife both agree then its cool?

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Basically yes, then if you want to add another person after, husband, wife, and the person that was added before need to agree to add the next person

[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

like can we share one thing like me and my partner both live in other city, so actually in other city she hug one friend so she ask me

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

If they are only a friend and not actually part of the relationship, you just need consent of the people in the relationship. That's what I do when flirting online with people, I have the consent of everyone in my relationship (only my bf for now)

So as long as she keeps you aware and that you say it's fine, it's perfectly ok in my opinion

[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

so she can keep that relationship?

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

can i share detail in message?

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

she asking me can she invite him in home?

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

That's for you to decide if you are ok with it or not

[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago
[–] prash2671990@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

ya sometimes but according to you?

[–] Gyrcas@piefed.zip 1 points 9 hours ago

For me, I prefer when both me and my bf can be flirty with the person. If the person prefers me or my bf, I fear that it could lead to jealousy, so I try to make sure everyone gets their fair share of flirting :3