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Nah literally cut off my last main male friend group. I basically hung out with one dude and he'd hangout with other guys I've known for maybe 15-20 years but never I never hungout with them 1 on 1, just this one dude. I stopped responding to the group texts, don't accept invites and slowly weened my way out. These are the guys:
One is in a "punk band." He grew up with a house maid. Tried to mock me multiple times for things like; wearing Docs, wearing band shirts(that he doesn't like), my tattoos(which are cool af). He's definitely just mad I am naturally way more punk than him without even trying.
An alcoholic who has become more annoying as we aged.
A pot head who doesn't share his weed, like ever. His dad bought him a house only one of us with a house, his dad paid for his college as well. No debt, doesn't share weed.
The main guy I used to hang with you could've called an anti-establishment/conspiracy theorist type. We would play co-op couch games and shoot the shit, drink a little and smoke a bit. Since 2015 he's slow walked down the path you imagine, never really diving head first, but walking it. He doesn't vote, but started listening to Tim Poole and slowly got worse from there. Just an absolute idiot that even when presented with information doesn't accept if it isn't what he thinks. The last time we hung out a few months ago we were talking about politics loosely and he kept doing this little bitch hand wave thing with this disgusted grimace on his face to anything about everything happening. The last thing I said was "You know man I miss talking about politics with you, it never used to be this pathetic we could just say whatever." Then I said bye and decided I don't ever wanna hangout with these dudes again.
Now my main friends are some ladies I used to work with and my online D&D group, which has two guys in it but they're like chill nerds.