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This sounds very good, what did I miss? Does lemmy have a lemmy community drama community yet?
There was a poster who'd ask what we thought about age-gap relationships, spin elaborate relationship scenarios, rage-bait by insisting that any gap of more than about 2 years was disgusting, argue with anybody who said otherwise, delete the post, and then post something very similar days or weeks later. Very similar MO to this poster, coincidentally.
This is such a specific manifestation of mental illness. I know I shouldn't be but I'm fascinated.
Wish they’d go do it on 4chan or whatever weird corner of the Internet weirdos have scattered to now
They would also go on rants about how heros are bad because they lie to people about their secret identity.