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Have you ever experienced sexual anhedonia? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 days ago by MrOtingocni@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I just did. It sucked. For the first time in my life I ejaculated without an orgasm. Not a little one or a lousy one. Like, not one- at all. Nothing.

In fact, I am pretty mad about it right now. It feels like jonesing for a candy bar, putting your cash in the vending machine and it just takes your money. WTF?? Now you're still hungry, super irritated, and don't have another dollar.

I pray this is just a one time thing. Please, universe, don't take away ol trusty.

Has anyone else experienced this??

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[–] Cypher@aussie.zone 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Go to a doctor. Get yourself checked.

Prostate cancer kills and you’re high risk.

[–] MrOtingocni@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Great, I'll just add that to the list of other potentially lethal conditions I've been avoiding the doctor about.

[–] Cypher@aussie.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh. American huh?

[–] MrOtingocni@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I got a bankruptcy amount of issues to see the doc about. Trying to put it off until I am out of debt (so I can accrue fresh debt).

[–] Ulvain@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 days ago (2 children)

What makes you worry about prostate cancer for op, in his post(s)? Curious to see the worrying clues...

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Happened to my father in law and two years later he was dead. If I had just gone at the first sign, instead he waited a year. It's better to be safe than sorry.

[–] Cypher@aussie.zone 1 points 2 days ago

History of frequent urination, enlarged prostate and unusual ejaculation. Likely higher risk age as well but not confirmed.