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Because we are herd animals that tend to pick on those we perceive as different?
That being said, are they discriminated against? Can you give examples?
Ace person here. "You just need to find the right person" and variations of that are something we often get.
On the more malicious end of the spectrum, you get stuff like "you just need a good fucking first"
There are also people who feel that ace people should not be included in queer pride or have their own flag/identity.
I wouldn't have put "you just haven't found the right one yet" in the discrimination category. That strikes me as helpless and ignorant rather than structurally evil. But I guess it's the repetition of it.
The "good fucking" one I'm with you. That's awful. And the pride-internal groupthink is discriminating too.
Thanks for broadening my horizon.