How can I help someone with a gambling problem? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 1 year ago by m0darn@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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My neighbour (40/m) ("N") confided that his recently retired father (70/m) ("G") has started going to the casino twice a day (all day but he comes home for dinner).

G's losses affect the food they eat (multi generational household).

N doesn't really know what to do. I'm not so concerned for N, moreso his mother/G's wife.

It's not my business but, when I was a kid my boyscout leader committed suicide after gambling away his house so I'm pretty sensitive to this sort of thing. I'd like to help if I can.

Any advice?

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[-] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

You can help by supporting N and offering to support N's mother. You probably can't help G, but you can help them. You probably can't help N and his mother know how to help G, but you can support them as they try to cope.

Good luck.

this post was submitted on 28 Sep 2023

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