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I always wonder if I’d be the same person I am today if my parents hadn’t exposed me to sex from a young age by openly fucking and doing BDSM around the house, if I hadn’t had unsupervised internet access, and if I didn't have friends with just as dysfunctional families feeding off each other’s bad habits. I feel like I grew up too fast and didn’t really mature at the same time, if that makes sense.

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[–] architectonas@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

did get to see a lot of a school friend's kinky parents, though

How did that happen?

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I got caught going through their s&m magazines. His Mum took me under her wing when she realised what was happening to me.

They were mostly trying to protect me, and I only ever watched.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Hold up. How old were you? A minor’s consent should not give an adult the green light have sex in front of them.