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[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] lime@feddit.nu 0 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

no, it's impolite to make noise at the cinema.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It sounds like a sad state of things when it's polite to stifle laughter when humor happens in front of you, but I'm sure there's a sane reason for it.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

the reason is you care about the people around you. every time i've seen an american cinema it's looked like a nightmare.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The ones near me have been pretty well-kept, but I imagine it varies by site. Either way, I fail to see how laughing at jokes means we don't care about each other? I usually feel a sense of ease and connection when a theater collectively laughs quietly at a funny moment. A messy theater existing somewhere doesn't change that moment into a bad one.

[–] lime@feddit.nu -1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

it's just a matter of different atmospheres. people here want to be completely immersed in the experience and someone making noise around them ruins that. even children's films tend to have completely quiet theatres because everyone is so focused.

[–] Leg@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 weeks ago

Different strokes, I guess. This is a bizarre shot against the US though. I could take the same shot against your country for inverse reasons, but that would be silly.

[–] DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

no, why would it be? personally i very much enjoyed the experience.

[–] DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Laughing during a movie is impolite? That's insane. So if somebody makes a joke you just sit there stonefaced like a psychopath?

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

it's not insane, it's just the norm. scandinavians are very reserved people.

[–] DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Not laughing isn't reserved, its repressed.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

you can think something is funny and not laugh. PHM isn't really a comedy anyway. comedies tend to get more laughs in the cinema because people are primed for it.

[–] DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You said you never laugh though and that its impolite, thats a big difference.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

no, i said people in general don't make noise at the cinema. i don't know why people focused on laughter specifically.

[–] DisgruntledGorillaGang@reddthat.com 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

In response to being asked if people laugh, you said no, its impolite and that people only do it if they don't care about the movie. I don't know why you're arguing that you didn't say people don't laugh at the movies. Fucking a dude.

[–] lime@feddit.nu 1 points 3 weeks ago

i thought they were still talking about noises in general.