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Sometimes I ignore the question and just move on in conversation. Most people don't even notice because they're asking out of habit, not to actually ask you how you're doing.
This is what I do. Either ignore it or just say "yes" and move on to the main topic of the day.
I used to answer somewhat truthfully, but I dunno, answering "horrible, I want to kill myself" every time tends to bring people down and sort of ruins the mood. So its just easier to skip the question. And like you said, nobody notices, they don't really care. So why should I bother answering when its of no use. People who really want to know usually ask again and almost demand an answer, if you do ignore them.
I do this sometimes. I've had people ask again where i tell them that I'll get there after i fonish my story, but then obviously never go there. lol