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I’m asking as a dad of two biological kids and one adopted child (though the concept of adoption differs between the West and the Arab world), ranging in age from 13 to 17. I was raised with a traditional Arab boss-subordinate dynamic between parent and child, but with my kids I went the opposite way and tried to cultivate a best-friend, mentor, and guide relationship, while still maintaining my role as an authority figure.

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[–] fizzle@quokk.au 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Every one of your ancestors has faced the same dynamic. Everyone has thought the future looked grim since forever.

If you personally don't want to be a parent thats fine, but judging every parent for being a parent is a weird take.

[–] baines@piefed.social 1 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

lol if you think where we are today is anything like the last 100 years

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Hmm.

100 years ago the great war had just ended. 20 million deaths and about the same in severe injuries. You'd probably know the widows of several young men who died.

The great war spread the Spanish flu, one of the deadliest pandemics in history, where between 50 million and 100 million people perished.

The great depression began almost 100 years ago. Like a recession with more supply chain collapse. Even if you could afford clothes you couldnt buy them because the factory that made them couldnt afford to buy cloth.

During this time Nazism took root in Germany and set the scene for the second world war.

I can assure you that people living in this time thought the future looked very bleak.

[–] baines@piefed.social 1 points 12 minutes ago* (last edited 11 minutes ago)

yea now tell how any of that compares to the wet bulb crisis or ocean deoxygenation

go look up what your climate scientist are saying

we are fucked

[–] MalMen@masto.pt -1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

@baines @fizzle its like that every century.. "100 years ago looks nothing like today"