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I use 'homie' sometimes. It's not always the right option but it's another arrow in the quiver.
Homie comes from hommes, which is French for man/men. May also be closely related to hombre, which is man in Spanish. Definitely think it's risky to use it as a gender neutral term even though it's just regular slang in English.
This is just made up nonsense.
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/homie
Might be a descendant of Latin "homo" (man), but that doesn't matter a damn, x homie" just isn't gendered and etymology doesn't change that.
"Um ackshually it's man in Latin!" ☝️🤓
Yeah, okay, thanks for proving my point. Probably shouldn't be using a word that means "man" in several romance languages if your goal is to be gender neutral.