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Always at my job.
My manager is a micromanager and I don't mesh well with a lot of the ways we do things. So I'll try to start a project to make things better for me and I'll mention it or ask if I should continue when we meet. Every single time I get told no after some very fake deliberating from my manager.
I really really need to learn to keep my mouth shut and just do the thing that's going to help me
Better to ask forgiveness than permission!