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I remember when I was in China we used to have 防盗网 ("Anti-Theft Nets") all over our windows... I mean it also prevents us kids from falling out of windows I guess.
I remember my old apartment in Guangzhou, there was a sofa next the the window, the TV is on the opposide of the sofa. And behind the sofa was the window, that looked down straight to the alleyway (not a street, cars can't get in, the main road is like 10-20 minutes of walking distance away)...
Like sometimes as kids you play around and climb the sofa and then the top of the sofa (like the thing where you lean you back against) is the same height of the window.
So you could accidentally play around and if the window was open, you could, you know how kids be, peek out the window out of curiousity and fall out and die.
Like the only thing standing in the way is the Anti-Theft Net thingy.
This is what it looks like (random image found online):
I was always told to "be careful or you can fall out of there and DIE" and jeez... kid-me got so terrified of heights.
The stairs also have a bare-minimum concrete/cement barrier, you can get drunk, accidentally hop over it, and fall down to your death...
Come to think of it you could literally murder someone and pretend they accidentally fell. (Russian Dissidents have joined the chat 👀)
I remember when I visited one of my aunts apartment... it was like 16 floors high in the middle of Manhattan... OMG I got so scared... but I wanna look outside the window but I immediately just feel like I have a panic attack like "OMG what if I fall out?"...
I remember having a sleepover there with my family and literally every moment awake I was like Window = Scary
But yea I asked my parents "why not install those like we had in China", but apparantly most cities in the US have city ordinances against these things, you need a permit for it... and then since it's not the norm in the US, you'd just get targeted since people would think: "Ooh they must be rich / hiding a lot of valuables" so yea we don't have those anti-theft nets here in the US.