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My favorite is when someone tells me that they are too old to learn about new technology, or that they can't use a device because they aren't very tech-y. No, you just refuse to learn.

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[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I'm old and tech-y, and my contemporaries still use the "I'm too old to learn" line on me - and then ask me to sort out their issue. Deeply annoying.

[–] CrabAndBroom@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago

Me too, and I really think we need to be less accepting of it in general. I've known lots of people whose job involves using computers, and they can't use them and refuse to learn and expect others to help them constantly. I don't mind showing someone how to do something if it's a new thing that they don't know, but I've known people who get someone else to do the same simple task for them whenever it comes up, sometimes for years. And I don't mean learning everything there is to know about computers, but like basic shit necessary for your job like where files go when you save them, or how to format text in a Word doc.

Like... if your job is being a delivery driver and you don't know how to drive and you refuse to learn, people won't accept it. But for some reason it's fine with computers. I get that you may not like computers, but again, it's your job. Learn it.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I'm legit scared of that. Im only in my 30s and my capacity for learning has diminished greatly since I was a child. What if that trajectory continues?

I dont wanna be "too old to learn these newfangled thingamabobs" when we get the next big thing.

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 4 points 5 days ago

I'm at that point but between you and me, it's pure laziness.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

I'm 73 and I reckon I'm learning more now than when I was in my 20s. I have a few things I'm interested in and I have a real thirst to know more about them. Not like in school where I was forced to remember a load of names and dates.

I might have hit a wall as far as tech goes though - I see people here on Lemmy talking about servers and I'm interested, but struggle to understand the basics.