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Neighborly disputes will most likely no be solved by this provocation meets counter provocation strategy. I would strongly suggest you deescalate. So he drops his weights loudly, then you play loud music, then he lights a turd in a paper bag on your doormat, and then you ... This won't end well. You still have to live there and all you're doing is making a bad situation worse. You're just retaliating because you feel powerless to stop what's bugging you. And with this sort of dispute statistics are not on your side in terms of success.
Did you ever talk with him directly? Or put a kindly phrased note under the door?
30-60min twice per day - could you not just hide under some headphones for that time?
It's at 6:30. Not during the day.