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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Well, a white woman asked me out a month ago. I was going to swear off dating, especially dating white people, but she seemed really nice and I'd been enjoying talking with her so I said sure. It's been going ¿great? I don't understand, this is so surreal.

She made some comment early on about being worried she didn't know enough about anti-racism for me and I said, "that's a fair concern. Are you willing to listen and learn? To support me or at least not get in my way if I'm in some fight with mutuals over them being racist or oblivious? To not peace police me either in personal life or in my opposition to our fascist government?" She said yes, and has been honestly doing so much better with it than any previous partner, even a more radical one. I'm shocked. She's not as politically educated but is getting up to speed quickly because the nature of the political moment is so radicalizing. She even managed to learn to say my name correctly with the phonemes that don't exist in English.

She made some comment about feeling like she wasn't doing enough, and I pointed out she's stepped into a major logistical and support role for me and the work I'm doing, way beyond what I'd expect of a partner. But she wants to be supportive and is good at logistics. I told her: "If I am the tip of the spear, you are the shaft."

What the fuck. Life's looking up for me as the world goes to shit. What the fuck.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago
[–] Angel@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You occasionally meet the rare white person who genuinely has at least some degree of John Brown energy. Is it common? No, but when it happens, it feels surreal and you will be pleasantly surprised.

Happy for ya heart-sickle

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Also good on you for setting your boundaries early

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 10 points 6 days ago

Thanks! I literally said "I'm too old and burned out to so anything but healthy relationships, so this is how I'm doing things. Meet me where I'm at and we can have a good time, if not then the relationship will have to break.". And it seems she's actually stepped up unlike my ex who talked a big talk about wanting healthy relationship dynamics but was lying the entire time.

Life is surreal

[–] 3rdWorldCommieCat@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

For every 1000 evil white there's a needle in a haystack of a gem. Seems you found her, congrats! (not intended to sound snarky btw sorry if it does)

Not snarky at all, I'm also shocked lol