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I once actually thought that when movies and shows were developing, I thought that they were being made within the year of their release date. I didn't know that these projects were sometimes done in advance or took years to make.

That when 'Commercial Breaks' happened during shows, I thought they meant that the actors needed a break before resuming. Not realizing that episodes are already made and commercials just interrupt things to just sell you shit.

When I learned food and drinks were energy for your body, I actually thought that when I got sleepy or tired, I just needed to drink or eat something. Not realizing that it wouldn't have mattered.

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[–] PoopSpiderman@lemmy.world 147 points 4 days ago (5 children)

I thought hard work would be enough to make a living.

[–] JoshuaFalken@lemmy.world 54 points 4 days ago (1 children)

In fairness to yourself, it used to be.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 62 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago

But they're not being entrepreneurs! /s

[–] 2piradians@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Along those lines...my dad worked hanging drywall in new houses. I went to work with him many times. He busted his ass all day, sweating and covered in gypsum dust, blazing heat with hardly any ventilation, to bring home little pay.

On one of the rides in to work with him it occurred to me that if pay were decided by level of effort, he would be rich. Guys that wear ties to work and sit in air conditioned offices with their pencils and pens...they were living the easy life and making much more than their worth as I saw it.

Honestly that naivety hasn't fully left me in adulthood. I have more appreciation for many office jobs, but the people who put their bodies on the line for work in shitty conditions are not paid nearly enough by and large. It's a fucking criminal arrangement.

[–] Minnels@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago

I do both sides of this at my work, both office and do real work. I keep telling the guys who don't do the office part that they are the ones that should earn the most. Most of them are old and just think they are fine as is sadly. This mentality is sad imo.

[–] WhatGodIsMadeOf@feddit.org 7 points 4 days ago

I wonder where I would be if my work ethic didn't get raped for all its worth.

[–] pyrinix@kbin.melroy.org 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

At one point in time, it was. Now it's the opposite.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Did depend on what race you were mind you.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world -4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

Everybody forgets this. The time when "a single income could provide housing, transportation, and collage for a family of four" only existed for white men. Thinking this was universal is just lefty false nostalgia nauseatingly similar to MAGA.

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 16 points 4 days ago

It'd also depend heaviliy on the country too

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 11 points 4 days ago

Or it's your American defaultism showing.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

No, everyone forgets the https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tulsa_race_massacre

lefty false nostalgia

I don't know anyone left leaning who thinks that

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

You can, just not at the same company. You just have to hop jobs as soon as you get experience.