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So... my maternal grandmother was like: "hey you're old enough to be married, you need to find a girlfriend and get married soon"... (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 week ago by DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works to c/casualconversation@piefed.social
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Bruh wtf I'm not ready, still depressed af.

My grandmother really want to become a great grandmother that bad

Do y'all get these type of comments?

Wut lol

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I wanna reverse time and be a kid again.

(Yes I do eventually want to start a family, but I really need to fix my depression first)

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[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

I got married and had kids late. In retrospect, it was stupid to wait. I did some fun stuff in my twenties and thirties, but a lot of it was repetitive.

We didn't have kids until we were in our mid/late thirties. I really like my kids.

Due to that delay, I'm going to retire when they're entering the workforce. We'll never be in a similar demographic. I'll be too old to babysit their kids (if they have them). By the time they're in their thirties, I'll be looking for old age homes.

Your gran is right. If you do want to have kids, I'd suggest doing it sooner, rather than later. Definitely wait to find the right person, but once you're both ready, get to work.