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Guys, have you ever been asked this question: "If your mother and your girlfriend are both drowning, who would you save first?" How would you answer this question? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) by DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Context: So I just remember this after digging through memories.

So my mother was watching/reading some weird social media thing and there was this this question was asked to guys in China, and it's supposed to be a dilemma because if you say save your mother, your girlfriend will break up with you, if you say save your girlfriend, your mom's gonna disown you (cuz filial piety).

And so anyways, I think I was like 15 or something, and my mom asked me the question... I kinda froze because idk what to say... it was such a weird question. Then mom was like: "Of course you have to save me first, I raised you, remember? You only have one mother in this world." ... Something something... "People with blood relations to you comes first".

Now reflecting on that memory, that was so awkward...

Ever been asked this question?

How would you answer if your mom asked that?

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[–] tomi000@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Ask her if she would save her mom or your dad. In front of him.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 days ago

OMG I really wanna ask but don't wanna get yelled at.

My dad and my maternal grandmother are both alive... like they are literally in the livingroom right now, I really wanna just go downstairs and ask infront of everyone but I'm like 99% sure mom be like: "wtf why are you saying these things... blah blah brings bad luck"