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I don't care if you hate it or love it, I just wanna know why you feel the way you do. Bonus points if you want to speak on specific categories you like/dislike.

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I like it because it's a tool to explore sexuality in a way that my imagination could never. It's an incredible experience to come across something so sexy that I never would've imagined would push my buttons in just the right way.

It also shows me what I like and dislike, or what I could like in the right context, and makes me reflect on why I like those things.

Other times, I've had a "wtf are we doing" kind of moment, wondering why or how we even got to this weird thing that we need to insert appendages into orifices. Like, isn't it absurd on some level?