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[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

It should be to eat the fucking rich.

We agree on something.

As to the rest, the days of large families where some grandparent or aunt can take care of your kids is long gone. My grandparents had 7 kids. My parents 3. 1 or 2 for my gen and I expect my kids will have none. Not by choice, just priced out of household formation. My family are too busy taking care of their family to take care of mine. It's odd that you just assume you can impose on family like that and take it for granted without respect for their decisions.

It's also odd that your vision of a world would deny labour specialization that drives people to move where their specialized jobs are. Without specialization, our economy would collapse.

The world you dream of is long gone and can't come back until a couple of generations of rapid degrowth. Degrowth only happens when a great many of us stop having children for a while, until our numbers are back in check with our environment.

[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

A+ comment. OP just thinking they could dump their kid off by their parents or sibling for free daycare is extremely selfish thinking lol.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's literally how societies function. We're seeing it collapse in real time where that's not an option.

[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

It's a great idea don't get me wrong, just like having multiple generations living in the same house to split costs. And it is collapsing in front of us, but what if your sibling/ cousin/ friend just expected they could drop their kids off at your house? Especially if you had your own kid(s) to worry about?

If someone was a stay at home mom or dad, and offered their time to watch kids of friends/family for a very small fee that's one thing, but just expecting someone you know to watch your kids for cheap is not the answer either. It's the EXPECTATION that someone else will watch your kids that I have the issue with.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

the days of large families where some grandparent or aunt can take carebof your kids is long gone.

My wife's mom was pivotal in getting through the first six months of my son's life. But that's because she lived 15 minutes away and had all the time in the world.

I got in a conversation with a friend who talked about how she was raised by her aunt, while the rest of the family worked to pay the bills for the home. They lived well not because they individually got rich, but because they learned how to share the wealth they had.

It’s also odd that your vision of a world would deny labour specialization

Privatization isn't specialization. Having a daycare on your block doesn't mean you need to tip out some outrageous vig to the local loan shark. If you're dead set on dividing people up into economic casts, where some people spend their lives taking care of everyone else's kids, you can achieve that kind of professionalization and then pay the people rather than paying the landlords.

The world you dream of is long gone

It's alive and well. We've just denegrated it and punished those people who still pursue it.

We don't have to live this way. But we will if we continue to let billionaires bully us

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Privatization isn't specialization.

Nobody is saying this but you. I was clear and said specialization.

We don't have to live this way. But we will if we continue to let billionaires bully us.

I agree that there are a million better ways to organize civilization. Our current path is dystopia then extinction. It would be good to do better. Having more children on a planet going through an anthropogenic 6th great mass extinction is probably not the good move we're looking for.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Nobody is saying this but you.

That is the structure of the modern economy. I'm not magically speaking it into existence

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

But the conversation wasn't about models of ownership or economic modalities. Nothing I said is invalidated by capitalism, socialism, communism, democracy, authorotarianism etc... Degrowth is a simple, known method that is ethical and requires no magical thinking of hail-mary techno-inventing some just-out-of-reach-but-never-quite-here technology that all the growth based schools of thought seem to depend on. It works under any modality.

Let a little air out of the balloon before it pops. Not complicated.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Degrowth is a simple, known method that is ethical and requires no magical thinking

That's got nothing to do with individuals having or not having kids. Neither does high daycare costs.

Let a little air out of the balloon before it pops.

The problem with these metaphors is that they never have any material grounding. An economy isn't an air bubble. "Letting the air out" isn't "having fewer kids". And I'm not even sure what you think "popping" is supposed to be.

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

This is a really disastisfying discussion. You can't see how degrowth has everything to do with daycare prices and birthrates, so I can only assume you are new to the concept and haven't bothered a cursory glance to wikipedia.

In the same breath, you post how you don't like metaphores meant to characterize arguments to lay people.

I think we're done here.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world -2 points 4 months ago

You can’t see how degrowth has everything to do with daycare prices and birthrates

Because there's not even a correlation, much less a causation.

you post how you don’t like metaphores meant to characterize arguments to lay people

Not when they're hollow, no