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For more than a year now, our cat has been in and out of a cone because she keeps tearing up the flesh in front of her ear. We've taken her to the vet several times, they give us a different answer each time and whatever the solution the provide it ultimately does nothing. Ears are clean, no fleas, no obvious health issues. Anxiety meds just made her scratch lazily, antibiotics for cat scratch inflammation, did nothing. Topicals and antifungal, just make for slimey scabs. The best I've managed is using an anti itching cera-ve cream 4 times a day, but if I miss, there goes her face again.

We're at a loss at this point. She's otherwise very happy and loving, but it's starting to take a toll. We have to baby proof the house because when she can't scratch the spot she'll just scratch it on box corners, table edges, the dish washer, etc. She can't groom in the cone and when we try to brush her she just shoves her crusty wound on us to itch it. We love her so much and just want her better.

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[–] x4740N@lemmy.world 0 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (3 children)

Just going to comment this here for anyone else who's reading this and has a pet

LEMMY USERS ARE NOT MEDICAL EXPERTS AND ARE NOT VETINERIANS AND EVEN IF THEY CLAIM TO BE A MEDICAL EXPERT AND / OR A VETINERIAN YOU CANNOT VERIFY THEIR CLAIM

TALK TO AN ACTUAL VET / MEDICAL EXPERT

This comment may feel useless but I feel much better commenting it rather than someone potentially taking on dangerous advice and potentially harming their pet

[–] Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world 1 points 24 minutes ago

I appreciate the statement and this is very good advice for anyone who finds this thread.

I have been to vets, and I don't plan on doing anything to my cat that I wouldn't feel comfortable doing to myself. It's just that after 4 vets telling me quack things like "you could just declaw" and "this is probably because she's a single cat" I'm just here shouting into the void in hopes that the echo makes some sense.

[–] solarvector@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 4 hours ago

THEY ALREADY TALKED TO VETERINARIANS MULTIPLE TIMES AND ARE TRYING TO SEE IF SOMEONE HAS HAD A SIMILAR EXPERIENCE THAT MIGHT POINT THEM IN A HELPFUL DIRECTION

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 9 points 6 hours ago

Sure, probably shouldnt take advice here without double checking, but human beings actually have experience in their lives with having pets.

Also human beings like to share those experiences with eachother.