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I know this might be a weird and stupid question, but I'm curious.

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[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

back to being alone then, thanks.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

back to being alone then, thanks.

Why would that be? It's just a matter of deciding what one is looking for. Is it a (sex) toy for you to play with? Good for you, but that most probably won't be a friend/partner (they don't have battery to power them on will and they have their own needs). Is it a partner/friend? Even better, but don't hope to find them in the (sex) toy department ;)

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i'm just hoping to find good people in the "not awful" department. sex is optional.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

There are people like that, you should not lose hope. Those people just don't advertise themselves like that, and they are not waiting to meet anyone. This just happens when two persons start appreciating discussing with one another. Hence, the necessity to put in some work, and to make oneself available to them too. A few of those persons may even become good friends, with any luck.