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If so, I’m assuming they would not be safe to eat, correct?

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[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I don’t know any Amish people, but holy shit would I assume that’s a grave insult if they ever found out. “Thanks for your free and neighborly homemade pickles, but I’m going to buy some and can them right tyvm”

To be clear, it’s a great idea to do, just don’t advertise it, lol.

Edit: they’re not a free gift, which also changes things in my mind

[–] Big_Boss_77@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Your edit clarifies things, I thought I'd missed something. Ours sell all sorts of stuff, and as long as you've got the cash they couldn't care less what you do lol

I buy all my plants from them in the spring, they've got awesome greenhouses where they start them. Then I'll come back a few times throughout the summer and a few more times in the early fall and grab what I didn't grow well in my garden.

They're an absolute banging resource for gardening and fresh produce, and I'm glad they're within driving distance.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, no, I just made a bunch of assumptions and didn’t clarify them.

I was imagining OPs neighbors gave them a bunch of stuff as a housewarming/welcome to the neighborhood/we’ve got a bunch of cucumbers this year thing. Buying it from their farmstand is totally different and I could even imagine OP chatting to them about how to can pickles in a friendly way.

But if I’d given someone home canned pickles and they decided that paying for cucumbers and taking the time to can them was better than accepting mine for free, I would probably worry about how I’d fucked them up. Like, I would definitely not be mad (though I can see a personality type who would), I’d just feel rejected.

Of course, if they’re just super into canning, that’s one thing, but then I’d probably just invite them over to do it together.

[–] Big_Boss_77@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 3 weeks ago

Oh yeah, definitely. And no worries, as soon as I heard Amish, I'd assumed they bought them. The Amish have two or three little enclaves where they interact with the "secular world" and trade goods and serbices so that's where my mind instantly went.