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So, lately I've been seeing some posts on gaming and I've been wondering. I've been playing Roblox for an hour and I plan to hit my usual time of 4-5 hours. I do it to pass the time.

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[โ€“] florencia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 5 months ago (1 children)

As a general rule when it starts interfering with your "higher priorities", ususally career/family/friends. Calling off work using personal leave for a video game you waited 3 years for is ok. Using the last of your sick leave to get another day of gaming isn't. Missing events with people you want to have a good relationship with isn't.

[โ€“] arthur@lemmy.zip 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

This is a good rule of thumb for most addictions afaik.

[โ€“] lattrommi@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

People can smoke cigarettes without interfering with higher priorities. I don't feel it applies to 'most addictions'. It applies to a lot of them, but the opposite can be true sometimes too. I've known alcoholics who would have to call off work if they STOPPED drinking for a day, who would not be able to visit with family/friends unless they had a drink or three first.

It's a good rule, I agree with that, but not necessarily for most addictions, especially the more entrenched one has become in the habit.

[โ€“] arthur@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 months ago

Yeah, that is called withdrawal syndrome, when there are symptoms if the person stops using a substance. I think that's a problem caused by an addiction that interferes with a higher priority.

By the way, this is no joke and can lead to death depending on the severity.

For tobacco, I don't think withdrawal syndrome can kill, but it can last for 6 months according to a psychiatrist I know.

And about the criteria for addiction, in my country it is:

  • manipulative behavior to keep doing it (it = using the substance or the activity)
  • repertory restrictions (avoid doing other activities that the person used to do)
  • harm in other aspects of life (like what we said before)
  • keep doing it, even with those damages