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i feel it when I'm in a group of people who I find alienating and miserable to be around. or after breakups briefly.
i recently had to quit a group i'd been a part of for years... because the new members were really petty and vindictive people and being around such people is awful. they'd sit around after activities and just talk shit and mock people, it was disgusting.
Holy shit that was kind of my old friend group. Every time we hung out it was just shitting on people that weren't there. At some point i realised that they shit on me too when i'm not there and felt less and less the desire to hang out with them.
yeah 100%. it was depressing af. the OG people in this group were nothing like that. They were... interested in the actual activity... not pretending to be into so they could socialize and talk shit and spread gossip.
all the OG people left because they started families. the people who were shitty... were perpetually single.