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I'm a cishet dude and I find them beautiful and very nice. Any guy that tries to prove his manhood by being a neckbeard about them being like "oh these eldritch abominations! pronouns " need to grow the fuck up and touch grass, let alone actually interact with a woman.

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[–] robotElder2@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I've never heard that take but if I did i would suspect the speaker was not actually attracted to women at all.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It was super common among guys my age growing up in the 90's into the 2000's. And yeah it's lowkey just admitting you're not really into women much afterall.

[–] Llituro@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (3 children)

"straight sex and heterosexuality is basically gay" is one of the all time funniest cultural signifiers though. in the year 2000, it would seem that the only straight thing for men was exclusively hanging with/dating/fucking men

[–] Blakey@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago

Felix saying something like "You wanna have sex with a woman? Why, so you can make another man? Pretty gay, dude" was probably the funniest bit on Chapo for me.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

The sour grapes fox, I can't get laid with women so sex is gay.

the marilyn frye effect

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have heard a take criticizing vulvas as unsexy and complaining about why porn zooms in on them when he wants to see the whole person. But this was from a very gay friend who knew he was gay and did not find vulvas sexy trying to express his confusion about what I found sexy about vulvas.

[–] Bob_Odenkirk@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

I'm mostly straight and I think this too. genuinely nothing aesthetically sexy about vulvas in isolation imo.