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I'm fortunate the clinic I go to has a lot of PoC so the staff is at least experienced dealing with racism issues (if not PoC themselves). I do notice that white counselors often have blind spots, even when they're actively trying not to.
I literally used to have a white cis gay male therapist who claimed he was anti-racist and defended his Black friends from racism even when he was just a little kid, and when I talked about microaggressions in the context of workplace and hiring concerns, he legitimately asked me, "How do you know it's racism?"
You can't make this shit up lmao
Had this dude pull that along with not believing me, it honestly retripped my trauma and made it hard to function for a few days. This is going to have me swear off therapy for good at this rate.
This dude has spots you could drive a bus through, hence chud. PoCs are rare out here. Ended up flat out cancelling, I'd rather not deal with a racist.
Hope you find a better therapist. It's hard finding good ones as-is, so adding racism to deal with on top of that is even worse.
Did he have a background in sociology? It's always the goddamn sociology psychologists that are the worst. They devoted their undergraduate to a Marxist field of study without ever reading Marx because the Red Scare never ended.
Yes he did, I'll keep an eye out for those since the dude was pretty fucking bad, finally working courage up to see a therapist about a hate crime for them to be a bigot is some cosmic grade to hell with you in particular, the simulation desires your upmost raw suffering tier shit.
I've had some good therapists before, but they've generally been super seasoned and in cities, and I'm not in a good place physically nor economically for 5hr drives. I'm at the point I'm just going to call it for now since I can't afford being fucked up for 4 days at work to the point people notice because my therapist reopened trauma and salted the mental wounds. I cried like every day after work.
Does your insurance cover telehealth visits? I think it depends on the state, but some places you can call or do video appointments with therapists if you're 5 hours away from a clinic. Maybe you can get a referral from your primary care provider saying you need some kind of accommodation not available at clinics in your town, so you have to use someone elsewhere.
A lot of therapists don't take my insurance at all and where I live a lot of places have gotten more strict on remote visits. I'll try to get a referral for that office again but my first visits will still need to be in person.