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I guess I get to move out of my house and find someplace else to live.
Wait. We're you unsatisfied with your place? I don't remember that.
My wife left me. I officially have nothing now.
jesus christ. you don't deserve this and i'm sorry it's happening to you. i hope in time you are able to recover and flourish.
Honestly I don't think I deserve much of anything. I've spent 42 years trying to find happiness and I guess I'm still looking.
You deserve good things roux.
Where are these good things?
Idk, that depends on what is good for you and what you want. But I agree with Edie and Kuori, you deserve them either way.
You guys are great. Maybe I do need to live single. Most of my autism-related issues is from too much family noise anyway.
If home automatically means overstimulation, yeah, living single might actually help a lot
home should be a sanctuary. you're going through a nightmare but perhaps some good can come of it, if it gives you the opportunity to take stock, experiment, and find a way to the comfort and peace you deserve.
i wish that for you, at any rate.
good luck
I'm incredibly sorry to hear that. I wish there was anything I could do.
Roux, I am so sorry