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What is smth toxic in a relationship you should not like but did/do?
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this post was submitted on 04 Sep 2023
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Yep, same.
I know it's not healthy, but in particular when I feel a bit unstable myself, having someone else be reliant on me, especially emotionally, helps feel me good about myself. And it also anchors me since I have a "job to do".
But it's not healthy, I know. And before you say "get a pet", I do nowadays. 😅
Maybe I need a pet. I've been working on myself for like 10 years and all I needed was a pet!