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[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 178 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It’s reliable, it’s simple, it’s free, and virtually everyone who uses the internet has one. Email won’t be replaced for a LONG time.

[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 81 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

To be fair, if it is "free" you are probably paying your mail provider with your data.

[–] i_am_hiding@aussie.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

My mail server is in the cabinet above my desk.

I guess you're right - my mail provider does have all my data - but my mail provider is Me!

[–] cdf12345@lemm.ee 62 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I assume he meant free like speech, not free like beer.

There are no gatekeepers to email, anyone can get a domain and their own server.

[–] quack@lemmy.zip 59 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

There are definitely gatekeepers. Even if your hosting provider isn’t blocking port 25 by default, SPF, DKIM and DMARC will see your emails going straight into the recipient’s junk folder/spam filter if not correctly configured. Hosting your own mail server at home is also a fantastic way to piss off your ISP, lose emails to downtime, have your IP blacklisted from many services and open up your environment to exploitation. It can be done but let’s not pretend that it’s easy or that there aren’t barriers to entry.

Mail servers are like filo pastry. Sure, you could go to the inconvenience and effort of making it yourself and I’m sure it’ll be very satisfying to do so. But 99% of professionals use the store bought version, and for good reason, because it’s a lot of effort for an end result that is no better and in all likelihood probably worse.

[–] Illecors@lemmy.cafe 10 points 21 hours ago

Mostly agree, but as someone who has been hosting my own email for years I can tell it is, in fact, better.

Quick note for hosting one on a residential IP - that would no longer piss any ISP off. You would simply not deliver anything anywhere due to IP being blacklisted by default.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 11 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

SPF, DKIM, and DMARC would like to have a gatekeeping word

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 3 points 18 hours ago

Blacklists, greylists, whitelists. All just a big fuck you from the big vendors to anyone trying to self host.

[–] thesystemisdown@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

If you don't know what you're doing, hosting an email server will not be a good time. It's very easy to produce an environment that is easily exploited.

A somewhat inexpensive shared hosting plan allows you to host your own email though. I get it done for <$100/yr. and have little to no limitation over self-hosting.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

You try that once, but it doesn't last.

[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Or your ISP just provides you with one when you sign up.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Can never trust ISPs with that data.

They're marketing companies too. And imagine sending critical health emails to a company who wants to also sell you services, and suddenly, you get ads for it.

[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 2 points 20 hours ago

critical health emails

If you’re concerned about privacy, then that’s a no-no. Unless your clinic accepts PGP encrypted messages.

And we both know they don’t.

[–] thesystemisdown@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Not all of them anymore. Verizon doesn't, for example.

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, not necessarily in that case I'd imagine, since one presumably pays the ISP for internet services, so any "free" things bundled with it could also simply be priced into that contract already.

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That ToS definitely gives them the right to sell whatever data you provide to them though, at least in the US.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sure, but won't that happen regardless of if you use their email service or not?

[–] Turret3857@infosec.pub 3 points 23 hours ago

Yes. The point I was saying stands is the "paying with data" bit more than the "free (as in beer)" bit. I know youre still paying to use an ISP :p

[–] kadup@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not necessarily. My university provides a mail box for every student and their privacy policy is quite transparent and honest. The only limitations are related to the rate you can send emails, to prevent spam.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Wouldn't recommend it.

That's like using your company email.

Ive met a bunch of people who deeply regret sending everything to their university email to have that inbox shut down after a few years. Heck, had a junior hire recently complain that her university email was the primary for her banking, and once it was shut down, she was struggling with trying to reset her password.

[–] kadup@lemmy.world -3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Well this discussion has turned from "there's no free emai!" to "I don't recommend using free email from your university because I heard this caused trouble to somebody else once" which is not the point, so I'm not sure how I'm supposed to reply.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Generally email that's tied to your school or job is only active as long as you are a student/employee there, and given how many services don't let you transfer email accounts at all even if you know you're about to lose access and start migrating away you might not be able to.

Best practice is to separate out business, personal and academic into separate accounts and separate devices. No personal crap distracting you from your studies, no personal stuff that might endanger your job on your work email, and no sharing your personal email with randos at your job

[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I also have a work email address, but I use it for work stuff and I lose it if I end my contract. Can you keep your university address after you graduate?

[–] kadup@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

I can keep the basic "user@university.br" one, I can't keep the optional department-specific ones like "user@bioinformaticslab.university.br" if I quit my position or graduate.

[–] Atherel@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I wouldn't call it reliable at all but it works good enough. All the other points are so big that they make up the flaws more than once.

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 2 points 18 hours ago

Finally someone who understands email is a best effort model.