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sad emotional stuff
Finding myself needing to share somewhere about a woman I knew who changed my life, and continues to guide me to this day with everything she left behind. Someone gave me an old box of papers and things I hadn't seen in a long time, and finding her notes and dreams that she left, specifically for me to hold on to, after nearly 7 years, just wrecked me. I'm trying to figure out how to preserve everything with the limited resources and space that I have, but I don't know where to start. I miss my beautiful, talented, wild suffragette so much. She was a light in this world that will never be replaced.words
the best of us always seem to be gone too soon. i'm sorry you lost someone so central to your world. it's no consolation but i think anyone would be proud to have lived a life where they're remembered so reverently and loved so fiercely, even years on. it sounds like you two were lucky to have had one another.Thank you, I truly appreciate it. I'm doing a little better now.
a little context
She lived a long life, well into her 80's, she accomplished so many amazing things, and touched the lives of so many. The grief hit me like a truck yesterday, seeing her handwriting again. I didn't get to say goodbye because her kids didn't realize we still saw one another and hung out on a regular basis, and by the time she was able to reach me towards the end after getting sick, I didn't have a way to get to her before she passed. We weren't related, just chosen family, so I couldn't attend the funeral, and I guess all those emotions caught up to me again. Thank you again for reading/responding.What's wrong?
Caught up by old grief, essentially. Doin a bit better now. I put it in the spoiler under the emote, so others wouldn't have to engage if they didn't want. I also responded to Kuori explaining a little more, further down.