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Thank you, I truly appreciate it. I'm doing a little better now.
a little context
She lived a long life, well into her 80's, she accomplished so many amazing things, and touched the lives of so many. The grief hit me like a truck yesterday, seeing her handwriting again. I didn't get to say goodbye because her kids didn't realize we still saw one another and hung out on a regular basis, and by the time she was able to reach me towards the end after getting sick, I didn't have a way to get to her before she passed. We weren't related, just chosen family, so I couldn't attend the funeral, and I guess all those emotions caught up to me again. Thank you again for reading/responding.