ppl can just say the non lemmy instances, im making a private one called hardlywork.ing, just reccomend any url that isnt lemmy, I think theres moistcatsweat, any like that. They'll figure out its lemmy once they're on it

[–] Sergio@slrpnk.net 2 points 13 hours ago

That's a great idea. That way they also don't have to go through the whole problem of "how do I pick the right instance"?

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 1 points 16 hours ago

PieFed.social, although not quite ready for the masses, and Discuss.Online especially for traffic from the USA.

[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

Also lemmy isnt lemmy, its technically just one way into the threadiverse with more coming, piefed and kbin may be fine to mention