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I wish I never told anyone I worked or studied tech. Especially older family and friends, because their requests for help are relentless.

A lot of friends are chill with it, and I don't mind doing a little bit of help, but sometimes people are who are OFFENDED when you don't want to help. In the same way a contractor friend won't remodel your home for free, I am not going to fix every single issue you have with your computer for free. I'm happy to give advice, but i'm not going to work for hours without pay to fix everything.

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[–] shikitohno@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You can go the nuclear option. My mother used to complain constantly that her computer was slow, and could I take a look at it. This developed into a fortnightly ritual where I would remove the Internet Explorer toolbars she'd added that took up a full third of her laptop's screen, then run an antivirus scan for 5 hours or so to remove the malware she kept re-installing. Eventually, I got tired of it and told her I would either install something she couldn't mess up as easily, or she could fix her own problems going forward. She agreed to trying something new, and her laptop got a nice Linux Mint install. I guess she really loved her malware, as she soon lost interest in the laptop, despite offers to show her how to do what she wanted to, which really weren't more elaborate than opening Firefox and going to her email, facebook, etc, but I guess a new desktop icon and no toolbars was a bridge too far for her.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 2 points 1 month ago

I set my dad up with Ubuntu some years ago. He wasn't the worst windows user, but he had some troubles.

Now he's a big Linux fan. Updates his OS himself sometimes. He's not extremely savvy, but he gets by enough.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

When the laptop is configured as a Perpetual Engagement Machine, is it any wonder that stripping off all the flashy "CLICK ME! CLICK ME!" buttons causes your mom to lose interest in it?

Feels like you took all the bells and flashing lights off her slot machine. Why even pull the lever if its not going to overwhelm your senses with engagement?