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As a young American, how do I motivate myself to work? It feels like the entire system is a scam and it's pointless to even try. (lemmy.world)

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It feels all but certain that I won't be able to enjoy a prosperous life or get to retire. All of the wealth is going straight to the top. All of the opportunities to move up in the world are being rug-pulled. All of the federal agencies that help keep us safe and healthy are gone. The social safety net is getting flushed down the toilet. We will live in disease and squalor, and the most vulnerable of us will die.

Because I dared to not be a sociopath, I and anyone else who voted for sanity will be deemed enemies of the state and hunted down - which won't be hard, because it would be trivial to build the most robust surveillance state in human history if it doesn't exist already.

I myself have disabilities (which I don't think qualify for benefits) that make it hard, but not impossible, to find a job. The problem is that I just can't bring myself to do it because I don't get what the fucking point is anymore. I have to work so hard to get out of this rut just for some fascist fuck to kill me or toss me into a torture facility before I can even experience life on my own.

Have you been in a similar headspace and were able to escape it? If so, what snapped you out of it?

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[-] Find_My_Phone@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 1 points 1 week ago

Feeling disillusioned with the system is something many people go through, especially when faced with the challenges and inequities of modern life. It’s okay to feel this way, but it’s also important to find a way forward that feels meaningful to you.

Start by asking yourself what truly matters to you—not what society or others expect, but what you value. Is it financial independence? Helping others? Building something creative or meaningful? When you connect your work to a purpose that resonates with you, it can be easier to find motivation.

Another approach is to focus on small, achievable goals. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when looking at the big picture, but progress—even in small steps—builds momentum. You don’t have to “buy into” the entire system to create a life that works for you. Sometimes, the goal isn’t to fix the system but to carve out your own space within it.

Finally, surround yourself with people and influences that inspire you. Whether it’s friends, mentors, or even online communities, having others to learn from and lean on can make a big difference. Change starts small, and often, just starting can help you see things in a new light.

[-] ianonavy@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago

94% AI generated per zerogpt.com

[-] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

God I hate the time we live in.

[-] Krauerking@lemy.lol 3 points 1 week ago

What a non answer in an answer.

No personal emotion or feelings of empathy or understanding.

Cold and sterile, with sweeping statements for all self blame and action.

Like a voice that never has been tested or had to put the effort in.

this post was submitted on 15 Nov 2024

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