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Chinese Women Are Getting Weird Government Phone Calls Asking If They're Pregnant Yet: 'Things Are Getting Desperate' (www.ibtimes.com)

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[-] filister@lemmy.world 9 points 21 hours ago

They are practicing this in India if I am not wrong, but it is done by the parents. They are collecting CVs of prospective partners and sharing them with their kids. So it is like Tinder for parents kind of.

I also have a Pakistani colleague and he told me that they have a dating app, but for marriages. You see the profile of the girl/boy, where they share how many kids they want to have, etc.

[-] LavenderDay3544@lemmings.world 7 points 18 hours ago

Yep and it never ends well but they end up staying together because divorce is looked down upon in all but the most liberal communities.

[-] rakeshmondal@lemmy.zip -2 points 15 hours ago

So you're telling me all arranged marriages never end well because divorce is looked down upon?

[-] LavenderDay3544@lemmings.world 6 points 12 hours ago

No I'm saying the bad ones are hard to escape from, Rakesh. I'm literally a fellow desi and I've seen how these things go. Arranged marriage is a barbaric practice that needs to end.

[-] TwinTusks@bitforged.space 8 points 19 hours ago

This is also very prevalent in Chinese society.

[-] werefreeatlast@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Oh this is terrible.

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