[Serious] What should every young person do? (lemmy.world)

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For the purpose of this question, the target age range is 20-30. Asking because I feel like I'm wasting my youth.

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[-] Xenny@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Honestly go out and figure out your sexual preferences by exploring and experimenting. I find this happens a lot. A young couple get together in early twenties. Then they slowly drift apart because y'all honestly didn't make a solid decision on who to settle down with. It causes so much pain, heartbreak and financial stress.

Just be honest. Hit the apps and let everyone know what you're doing. Just meet people. If they are weird no big deal meet the next person. And you will probably fall in love but you have to be strong and make sure to only give that heart out to the one you know will take care of it.

When you get that feeling about a person but you know they aren't the one identify why you like them. You will probably form a pretty solid idea of your preferences this way. At least I did.

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