Is it normal for men to be propositioned by swingers, and what makes a man an attractive candidate to swinger couples? (lemmy.autism.place)

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I have been propositioned by swingers quite a bit. It's to the point that if a couple is nice to me, I start getting suspicious. This has happened with acquaintances, long-time friends, people I've met at a party, co-workers, and even strangers at the beach. Three times that I can remember off the top of my head, they propositioned me and my girlfriend at the time (separate girls many years apart). Is this a normal thing? What about me could make me attractive to swinger couples?

I'm a cis-gendered straight male. As far as physical attractiveness, I would say I'm slightly above average based on what women have told me and how they treat me.

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[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 18 points 3 months ago

I've asked people to join threesomes before, and I ask hot and cool people with style.

I first read that as you stylishly asking people to have a 3-way.

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Hey good lookin', wanna bang?

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 months ago

Haha, yea, unintentional but fairly accurate.

I absolutely love that character-people-drawing

There's a word for that I don't know?

Type-doodle?

[-] thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz 9 points 3 months ago

They're called kaomoji, like emoji. In Japanese, emoji means "image-letters" and kaomoji means "face-letters." The English word for them is probably emoticons, but that more refers to things like :-) and xD. Kaomoji can be called "Japanese emoticons."

If you have an Android phone, your keyboard has built-in kaomoji ヾ⁠(⁠ ͝⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ͡⁠°⁠)⁠ノ⁠♪. You can access them by opening up the emoji panel at the bottom left, then tapping the ":-)" button at the bottom right, which contains some western emoticons but many categories of kaomoji

[-] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 months ago

Talk about TIL.(⁠+⁠_⁠+⁠)

Fascinating.＼⁠(⁠°⁠o⁠°⁠)⁠／

Thank you.(⁠ ⁠´⁠◡⁠‿⁠ゝ⁠◡⁠`⁠)

[-] Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

I was today years old when I learned that that is a feature in my phone keyboard (⁠✷⁠‿⁠✷⁠)

Thanks, kind stranger

[-] thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz 5 points 3 months ago

At your service (￣^￣)ゞ

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