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[–] gon@lemm.ee 5 points 3 months ago

No clue! This post was the first time I've ever heard of this electric massage thing.

Maybe it's the sort of stuff that happens to the first person to fall asleep at a sleepover or something. Just a guess.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Maybe something like that, yeah.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 82 points 3 months ago (8 children)

The translations you're seeing here are inaccurate at best.

電気アンマ does mean electric massage, but it specifically refers to the move being performed on the packaging: pressing one's foot into someone's genitals, as a prank. So it's not just any electric massage.

Also, 復活 does mean resurrection, but once again, it's unlikely that's what they meant, in a literal sense. It's more likely they meant "comeback," as in bringing back the practice of 電気アンマ.

It's a meme by タイツくん (Tights-kun). They were selling it on their website, but aren't anymore, and the flavour is black pepper and salt with bamboo charcoal. I can't read the last kanji very well, but I'm trusting this Reddit post's reading. It does seem to check out, but the resolution is awful.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

I love getting these recs :D

[–] gon@lemm.ee 15 points 3 months ago
[–] gon@lemm.ee 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Looks like it's got its tongue out.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 5 points 3 months ago

Terry, the Bienveillant.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

There's closed-toe sandals, no? Maybe those aren't called sandals...

[–] gon@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

My first thought exactly. There's platform sandals and such.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Seinen

So... I should read this?! This doesn't seem like something I should read... But... Is this a secret masterpiece?!

[–] gon@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Oh snap, yeah, cilantro!

[–] gon@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

I recommend Leuchtturm1917 Notebooks

Yeah, those are the ones I've seen recommended. They seem very nice, but I'm really not sure I can justify the price... I was thinking the Midori MD line was much more in my price-range for this.

I definitely wanna get into fountain pens! I was strongly considering getting a Lamy Safari, since that's what I see being recommended for beginners most often, but I haven't pulled the trigger yet. I'll definitely check out Pen Addict, though, thanks for the rec :D

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Laundry (lemm.ee)
 

I did some laundry today. Not everything, as that would be very hard and expensive on account of several factors, but a little, enough that I'm content with it.

I read a newspaper while I waited at the laundromat. There was a lot of stuff there that I didn't care about in the slightest, but there were a few articles that I found interesting and worth reading. I liked the opinion section in particular.

Also, I managed to not buy chips today. Small steps... I really need to kick this damn habit. I keep saying I need to kick it and then not kicking it... I even walked to the aisle today, I looked at them, I even grabbed the damn chips. But I managed to take control and just... Walk away. Bought some rice and sardines instead. I know that doesn't sound very appealing or anything, but I liked it. I put some extremely hot hot sauce on the rice but forgot to mix it in. So there was just a little blob of black poison sitting there. I didn't notice, and just took a spoonful of it and ate it all. I thought I was going to die, but it was actually not as bad as I expected. Maybe somehow the way I ate it just... Didn't let the sauce touch my tongue or something, I don't know. It was hot, mind you, but not nearly as hot as I've come to expect from that particular sauce. It even tasted kinda good, to be honest. The sauce is what I'd describe as mostly flavourless, it really just tastes like "hot," if you know what I mean, but that spoonful was kinda tasty. Maybe it was something else, or maybe I just hallucinated flavour instead of pain.

I wore a really cool shirt today. It's a Hard Rock Cafe shirt I got in Budapest. It has the Liberty Statue on it, it's super cool. It's comfortable too.

It was a good day, today.

 

I cleaned my room today.

Cleaned the floor and organized a little bit, put my clothes away and such. I still need to do laundry, but there just isn't space right now. Not like I have nothing to wear or anything, so it's not that critical, but I'd like to get it over with ASAP, of course. I do have some money leftover in a laundromat card, so I'll probably go and use that tomorrow, wash some stuff. I need to take the trash out too... But it was raining a while ago and I got lazy.

I'll get to it, I swear! Today, even! I'll just try and wait out the rain a little...

I've looked into the Indieweb a little. It's really cool. I've wanted to have a website for a while now, but the fact I have to pay for it always put me off a little. I really dislike paying for stuff in general, but especially online.

Oh well, I'll look into it more and see how it goes.

I bought some chips from a different market today. They were about as delicious as the ones I usually buy, but slightly cheaper per mass. They were more expensive overall, but with more chips too. Not sure which is the superior option. Well, the superior option is to not buy chips at all, of course... I'll get on that, too. I'm having a hard time kicking this habit...

I've also been looking into sport climbing. It's really cool! Just watching some YT videos and reading some articles. Looks like it's lots of fun. I remember climbing a wall we had in our gym back in middle school... Holy, that's a long time ago. 10 years! Time sure does fly.

 

I took it upon myself not to immediately reject Portuguese content on TikTok, recently.

I feel like that makes it sound like I was immediately rejecting it, which was not the case, but I mean more so that I'm now actively inviting it. I've been following several Portuguese accounts for months, if not years, at this point, but the number has been going up dramatically the past few weeks. Political content, cultural stuff like food reviews, music recommendation, linguistics... It's lovely.

It's also changed my perspective a little bit on how young Portuguese people think. I'm in the unfortunate-fortunate situation of having very highly educated friends and family... The only person in my life that even acknowledges the far-right as legitimate candidates is my grandma, which is love, but, to be quite frank, she's not the brightest and age has taken its toll quite severely. I keep telling her that they're not very good, but I don't think she cares about politics, she just likes that the front-man for the far-right is cute and has the same last name as her...

Regardless, the TikTok comments on political videos can get pretty nasty and insulting, but generally speaking the people engaging with the videos that I'm engaging with are young Portuguese people that actually try and think about politics. Of course, I'm aware that this is selection bias, but I find it comforting to see that there really are young Portuguese people getting into politics, educating themselves on our political parties and system, and trying to use their vote in a way that benefits their goals for the country. In other words, I'm glad I'm not the only one trying to learn about what the hell is going on in our country, and what I should do about it.

When I see rallying cries for the far-right, it's always framed as a sort of defeatist attitude, or perspective on the system, and a simple rejection of the established parties. I find that to be profoundly sad, to be honest. It feels like the flip-side of where I'm getting at. I saw that things weren't great, looked into why, decided to find a party that aligns with my goals. But these far-right supporters seem to have just decided that the established powers are bad, so they'll vote in whoever presents themselves as the opposition. They're not voting in favour of what they want, they're just voting against who they perceive to be "the bad ones." And mind you, I do agree that our 2 biggest political parties are corrupt failures. I do not like them very much at all. However, to come to the conclusion that the way to go around that is to just vote in a party that points a finger is so brainless. Really, I mean that. It's like they don't think. I find it very upsetting.

There's also a lot of racists, of course. People that don't know anything about immigration, but just don't like brown people, pretty much. That's also brainless, of course, but at least they're voting with some sense of what they're going to achieve by doing so. It's upsetting in a different, more familiar way, I suppose.

You know, something specific: I saw a video wherein someone presented a flyer by an ultra-nationalist Portuguese identitarian group. In said flyer, they stated that, in 2024, 25% of Portugal were immigrants. The person in the video said that they had no clue where they'd gotten the data for the flyer, but that they couldn't find any source. Now, it just so happened that I'd actually looked up that data only a few months ago, so I knew where to find it. Only about 11% of people in Portugal are immigrants. It's not a very high number at all. It's a little higher than the EU average, but lower than the US, for example, and much lower than countries like Australia, Norway, and Switzerland. I posted a comment saying this (in fewer words, of course), and somehow got two replies that... Well, they just didn't sit well with me.

One of them tried to argue something very weird. It said that, even if the rate of immigration continued at the current pace, which is exceedingly unlikely, Portuguese people would still be a majority by 2050. Now, OK, sure, but that's so irrelevant. And the comment as a whole was so weirdly abrasive and combative. It really felt like they thought that I was somehow trying to argue something there, when I very much wasn't. I aimed to correct the racist-ass flyer. I was trying to point out that those ultra-nationalist scumbags were straight-up lying to scare people. Another comment I got was purely incorrect, stating that most of the immigrants were rich people from the US and other EU countries and that they were buying up all the houses in Portugal, which is causing our housing crisis. Now, I do agree with the fundamental argument that allowing the wealthy to hoard housing is terrible and that that needs to be curbed, but most immigrants are not of that sort. They're people looking for opportunities and wanting to get a job and contribute to society. Not rich pricks hoarding homes.

I bring this up because it showed me that this sort of gut-response to "data" really does exist everywhere, and it's not exclusive to the far-right. Very left-leaning people are also averse to discussing the reality of our society, I guess because they are afraid to face the possibility that there really might be problems different from the ones that they think should be the focus of discussion, on a moral level, maybe. They ended up perceiving a basic statement, basic nonpartisan data, as an endorsement of policy they disagree with. Moreover, they threw meaningless and incorrect data in my face, like it did anything. I can fully understand how someone might come across this someplace else and be discouraged of the state of political literacy in the country.

It did remind of the that old, and still occasionally brought up adage that is "13/50." Using skewed, unrepresentative statistics to make a wrong point. It wasn't my intention at all, but I do see how it might've been perceived in that manner. I can't stand with the idea that data shouldn't be shared because posting numbers is the tool of the enemy or something, though. I think it's important to be educated. If the data said that we needed less immigration, or that the kind of immigration we have is problematic, I would be in favour of curbing immigration. However, that simply is not the case, so I'm not! There's no reason to be afraid of data, as long as it is properly collected, analyzed, and interpreted, it can be a fantastic tool to develop quality policy, in my opinion. I don't think this should be a hot take. I don't think it is a hot take, really, but I do feel that it may be the case that it can touch a nerve here and there.

Another interaction I had was a more positive one. Someone was supporting our (ex-)prime-minister, saying basically that he did nothing wrong. He did do many things very wrong, in my view, but I digress. I posted a reply explaining that they were misunderstanding the issue. Basically, our prime-minister did some shenanigans with a company of his: he sold it to his wife so he wouldn't have to report it; his wife sold it to his kids when he got called out; he refused to be investigated for it; and that ended up leading to a vote of confidence in parliament and the fall of the government. Huge oversimplification of the whole mess, but that's what happened. The person in the comments said basically that the Canadian prime-minister was extremely rich and there was no issue, so why was it an issue with our prime-minister. I've heard this before, that there should be no problem with having a businessman in politics. That's not he issue, of course, and that's what I said. The problem isn't that he has a company, not even a company that had deals with the state, but rather that he had control of said company and a clear conflict of interest; as CEO of the company, it was hard to trust that he wouldn't use his knowledge of what was going to be decided by the state to steer it unfairly to greater success. I pointed that out. Then, someone replied that the Canadian prime-minister retained his wealth and shares of the company (different phrasing). I pointed out in return that Mark Carney put everything in a blind trust to avoid that very issue when he got called out, while our prime-minister very much didn't do that, instead choosing to try to run around the reasonable questions of the parliament. Up to this point, it was OK, frankly. Then, I got complimented for my reply!

That made my happy... They also commented on my profile picture, on TikTok, which I thought was kind of a cute thing to do.

I try to leave comments on videos and reply to comments that provide some value to my daily life. I love showing support to people that take some time out of their day to post something informative on a public platform, so I thought it was nice to receive some words of encouragement myself.

When I first got on TikTok, I actually avoided Portuguese content like the plague. It was a different time, and I was a different person, to be fair. I don't necessarily regret it, as what I was getting on my FYP were grainy videos of kids dancing or families posting random stuff... But I'm glad that I've been reintroduced into the Portuguese side of the app.

Again, I am reminded to steer away from nationalism. I think it's great to feel love for my country, and to aim to improve it. To make it so that the young ones that are now growing up here can have an even better time than I did, so that the next generations can prosper more than I ever have. That would be amazing, but I can't let myself fall into weird identitarian politics like the ones on the flyer... It was a really disgusting piece of propaganda, really. The person that discussed it on TikTok that I saw was very eloquent and I thought they had really great analysis. I'm glad that was the case... Maybe some people that didn't see anything too wrong with that sort of thing came across her video and realized how terrible the messaging really is.


Completely unrelated, I've decided to learn more about XMPP. I've been looking for something that could replace WhatsApp, and all alternatives put forth seemed insufficient... Signal is American, Threema is paid, Matrix is terrible


I really hate Matrix, by the way, terrible experience every time I use it ---, Session doesn't have video calls, et cetera, et cetera. But this XMPP stuff seems somewhat promising. I installed Monocles Chat. We'll see how this goes.

 

I sold my old jeans, and I bought some new jeans. They're almost exactly the same as the jeans I usually wear, but a bit longer. My mom suggested wearing slightly longer jeans might be better... I don't know, she might be right, so I decided to order some.

Let's see how I like 'em! I wonder when they'll arrive... At most, assuming they're actually sent and the seller doesn't fuck up somehow, they should arrive by next week.

Excited!

There's another pair I'm interested in, but I don't want to be buying jeans in bulk, especially if I'm not sure they're exactly what I want. I'm buying a new size, so it'd be best to see if I actually like it before buying more. It's a shame, since it might very well be that the one I want will be sold by the time the new jeans arrive... Oh well, that's just how it goes, sometimes, I suppose.

 

Portugal is going to the ballot box for the 3rd time in 3 years. What a shame, I must say. 2 governments fell with corruption scandals, and now we'll elect a new one.

It seems that this government is gonna be reelected. Nobody I want to vote for has even a remote chance of winning, but I'm happy that there's at least 1 party that I don't find thoroughly dreadful... I think our Communist party is mediocre, but I like some of their points... I don't like others. They're a little too anti-EU for my liking, I think I lean way more federalist than they do. There's another party that I like, to a certain extent, though I think they have a really weak program. They do a lot of talking, like "we want this" "this is the goal" but then the practical ideas are very... Loose, let's say. I don't feel comfortable voting for them, based on that. However, looking at their motions in parliament... It does seem that I'm more aligned with what they're actually doing...

I suppose, at the end of the day, that's what I should guide my vote with.

I've also been thinking about wars, recently. There's the war in eastern Congo, Palestine, Ukraine... Trade wars too, I mean, there's just


I don't know


there's so much going on, it feels overwhelming...

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Eurovision (lemm.ee)
 

Recently, Portugal selected our song for the ESC, it's called Deslocado by NAPA. You can find the English lyrics here.

It's beautiful, in my opinion.

There's been a little controversy with the selection, however. The song only ranked 2^nd^ in the fan vote. Personally, I think the ESC should be about more than just winning, it's not meant to be about winning, it should be about sharing each country's musical culture. This song is that 1000 times over. The song that topped the fan vote is I Wanna Destroy U by HENKA. It's not bad, though I do prefer the NAPA's. Regardless, being in English just... Doesn't sit right with me. We have beautiful Portuguese music in Portuguese, and we're sending an English song? Nothing against English-language songs, I love tons of artists that sing exclusively in English, I listen to English songs all the time, but the ESC is just not the place for that.

The narrative online seems to be that NAPA is the choice for Portugal, while HENKA would've been the choice for a win.

I think my position on this issue is obvious. It reminds me of a classic of Portuguese hip-hop... It seems we've forgotten it. Check it out.

I'd like to take this opportunity to share a couple Portuguese songs I love:

And what is perhaps the greatest rap song ever made in Portugal:

Valete is the best Portuguese rapper and, quite frankly, it's not close. We have some other good ones, mind you, but this man speaks in a way the others simply don't. That song is almost 20 years, at this point, but he still makes great music.

Portugal has great music, and great music in Portuguese. Why the hell should we send an English song? Come on...

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Switching.software (switching.software)
 

I came across this website on Mastodon.

Switching.software

It doesn't have any European bias, seemingly, but it could be a resource for people interested in ditching the big US tech firms.

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by gon@lemm.ee to c/gondaily@lemm.ee
 

Chocolate milk is delicious. I know, I know, hot take... But I'm serious, I love love LOVE chocolate milk!

My granny often buys these chocolate milk little thingies, huh, I forget the word for the thing but they have a straw and they're rectangular... You know what I'm talking about. Packets? Whatever. They're fine, you know, low quality, cheap, but they're fine.

However, there's levels to this.

One can make their own chocolate milk, of course. Mix chocolate powder and milk. Very good, good choice. More cost-effective too. However, even that is not quite peak, you know?

Do you know peak chocolate milk?

It's UCAL. UCAL is peak chocolate milk.

Holy crap... I just, I can't even describe how much better UCAL is than the competition. It's honestly not close, and let me tell you, I know chocolate milk.

I've tried chocolate milk.

I've tried different powders, different brands, different techniques


hot mixing, cold mixing, different amounts, large quantities ---, I am a chocolate milk connoisseur. I know chocolate milk. And UCAL is the best.

The glass bottle UCALs? Great. The UCAL Go bottles? Great. The big UCAL bottles? Great.

You want chocolate milk? It's UCAL.

How in the fuck do they make it taste so good? No clue. I've tried to emulate it, but I can't. Different milks, adding sugar, adding honey, using actual chocolate instead of powder... Yeah, no. It's not UCAL, it's not good enough.

UCAL is the best chocolate milk out there.

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A Vision (lemm.ee)
 

I have a vision of what I want to look like.

Slowly, I'll morph into that. I can see it, I can feel myself sprouting!!!!!!! I SHALL BLOSSOM!!!!!

I joke, but I am serious... I am surely walking towards my true self. Sounds a little cringe, but the true cringe is stopping yourself from being honest, so I say it anyway.

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Congo (lemm.ee)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by gon@lemm.ee to c/gondaily@lemm.ee
 

I've recently been hearing about the war in the DRC.

I don't fully understand the extent of the violence, but from what I've seen, it's rather terrible. The Congolese government is terrible by all accounts, committing several atrocities itself while being violently corrupt.

However, it does seem that the Rwandan-backed M23 militia is completely self-interested in their actions, despite their arguments to the contrary. Rwanda wants minerals and to continue it's persecution of political opponents internationally, while using that very authoritarian crusade as pretext for horrendous acts of violence against innocent Congolese.

I really don't know what more to say about this. I don't really have the words to talk about it, I don't think. Instead, I'd like to share some resources that may help you understand it yourself.

From what I can gather, it seems that the West needs to pressure Rwanda way more to stop this.

By the way, to anyone reading this, do suggest where I should post about this. I think it's not getting talked about enough, and I don't think my little stream-of-consciousness comm is the best place to speak this...

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/57576884

There's so many ways to interact with the Fediverse. The most popular, by far, seems to be Mastodon, but Lemmy, Misskey, and Pixelfed are also relatively popular. Kbin used to be popular, but it has apparently been abandoned, and is mostly dead at this point.

I recently learned that Mbin is a thing, checked it out, and it looked really cool! Has anyone used it? How different is it from Lemmy? I hear they have better integration with Mastodon.

What Fediverse services do you actually, regularly use?

For me, it's mostly Lemmy, though I do hop on Mastodon every now and then.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/57576884

There's so many ways to interact with the Fediverse. The most popular, by far, seems to be Mastodon, but Lemmy, Misskey, and Pixelfed are also relatively popular. Kbin used to be popular, but it has apparently been abandoned, and is mostly dead at this point.

I recently learned that Mbin is a thing, checked it out, and it looked really cool! Has anyone used it? How different is it from Lemmy? I hear they have better integration with Mastodon.

What Fediverse services do you actually, regularly use?

For me, it's mostly Lemmy, though I do hop on Mastodon every now and then.

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