Don't let perfect be the enemy of good
I love you. This is something so many people need to hear, and crucially, understand.
It's a special kind of whataboutism to always claim that nothing is good enough. Nudges in the right direction matter. We're so tied up in the perfect solution that the nudges fail, and here we are.
Sadly mods won't fix the fact you have to play a loading screen.
The fact that Bethesda thought they could get away with their ancient engine once again is laughable.